Why I Chose This Profession (And Why I Love It)
When people find out what I do for a living, they usually have questions. Some are curious. Others are confused. A few are downright judgmental. And yet, I always come back to the same answer: I chose this profession - it didn’t choose me.
Being an escort isn’t something most people grow up dreaming about. It’s not talked about at school career days. But it is, for me, one of the most empowering and fulfilling choices I’ve ever made. So today, I wanted to share why I became an independent escort - and why I still love what I do.
Freedom Over My Time
Before I started escorting, I worked a 9-to-5 that drained me. I was stuck behind a desk, answering to someone else’s schedule, barely scraping by. Now, I choose when I work, who I meet, and how often I take bookings.
If I want a weekend off, I take it. If I want to travel, I can. That kind of freedom isn’t just a luxury - it’s life-changing. It allows me to prioritise my mental health, relationships, and goals in a way that no traditional job ever did.
Financial Independence
Let’s be real — the money matters. Escorting has given me the ability to support myself fully, save for the future, and even treat myself now and then. It’s not always consistent, and I still have to work hard, but I’m no longer trapped in the paycheck-to-paycheck cycle.
There’s something deeply empowering about being able to provide for yourself — especially in a world that often tells women they shouldn’t have that kind of power.
Real Human Connection
A lot of people think this job is only about physical intimacy. But in reality, most of my clients are looking for connection - conversation, companionship, someone to listen without judgment.
I've met people from all walks of life, each with their own story, their own reasons for seeking company. Some are lonely. Some are celebrating. Some just want to feel seen.
There’s something incredibly fulfilling about being able to make someone feel valued, desired, and understood - even for a short time.
Confidence & Self-Awarenessn
This work has taught me more about myself than any self-help book ever could. I’ve learned how to set boundaries, trust my instincts, and stand in my own power.
Escorting has helped me grow my confidence — not just in my appearance, but in my ability to hold space for others, navigate complex situations, and show up fully in every interaction.
It’s also made me more assertive, emotionally intelligent, and grounded. And that personal growth is something I carry with me into every area of my life.
It’s My Choice, And That Matters
The most important part? I chose this.
No one forced me into this work. I’m not here because I had no other options. I’m here because it suits me, my personality, and my values. I’ve built something on my own terms, with my own rules.
And yes — like any job, it has hard days. But it’s mine. And I’m proud of it.
Final Thoughts
Escorting is a job that comes with stigma, assumptions, and societal pressure. But behind the stereotypes are real people making real choices — and finding joy, independence, and purpose in the process.
I didn’t fall into this profession. I stepped into it — consciously, confidently, and with both feet.
Thanks for reading.
Nana xxx